Do not tell me that you once thought your house was being broken into so you understand. Do not tell me that drunk footyheads hassled you when you were walking alone and you can relate. You know what it’s like to feel threatened and physically unsafe, but be honest: Until part of that threat included having your clothes ripped off and a stranger’s penis shoved inside you, you do NOT fully understand. Women have the intimidation, the beating, the robbery AND rape to fear. It’s not the same; it’s an extra layer of horror on top of the mugging flan. (Note: Check if flans have layers. Sponge? Mugging sponge cake.)
Why rape jokes are never funny (to women) - http://bridgetneval.com/2012/07/12/why-rape-jokes-are-never-funny/